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wook77Passive aggressive douchebaggery is passive aggressive. I had no idea that getting the preferred name for a character right was just so much of a fucking hardship that one needed to make a point of mentioning that the requested first name is actually the character's middle name. I also had no idea that when someone says "no smut needed", that they were actually asking for a kink they don't like to be prominently featured in a PWP. Consider me enlightened.
Now on to the happy making. Christmas this year was awesome.
Srsly. Best Christmas in years. There were no, zip, zilch, zero, nada, NONE, NON, fights at my house this year. There was no begging my nephews to eat. There was no brother being all snide and condescending and superior. There was no sister-in-law attempting to make me feel inferior or glaring at me for not playing with her boys just as she wants. There was no awkward exchange of gifts. There was no ignoring. There was none of that.
Instead, it was great! We watched the movies we wanted to watch. We ate what and when we wanted. We woke up when we wanted. Dinner was peaceful and relaxing.
Even the gifts rocked this year! I have a history of receiving shitty gifts. But this year, my family really outdid themselves. I sent out a small list of things that I would want. I ended up getting a few video games, some giftcards for iTunes and VISA checkcards. My mum got me THE video game I wanted. My older sister got me THE Cow Parade Cow I wanted. My younger sister got me a video game I'd mentioned I wanted while we were shopping but had forgotten to put on the list (go her memory!). But my dad, the horrible gift giver extraordinaire, totally got me the best gift this year.
I have a new bedmate. The Tauntaun Sleeping Bag from thinkgeek. *spazzes*
That would be my shih tsu taking a nap with the tauntaun.
How did Christmas go for all of you?
Feliz Navidad, flist!
Now on to the happy making. Christmas this year was awesome.
Srsly. Best Christmas in years. There were no, zip, zilch, zero, nada, NONE, NON, fights at my house this year. There was no begging my nephews to eat. There was no brother being all snide and condescending and superior. There was no sister-in-law attempting to make me feel inferior or glaring at me for not playing with her boys just as she wants. There was no awkward exchange of gifts. There was no ignoring. There was none of that.
Instead, it was great! We watched the movies we wanted to watch. We ate what and when we wanted. We woke up when we wanted. Dinner was peaceful and relaxing.
Even the gifts rocked this year! I have a history of receiving shitty gifts. But this year, my family really outdid themselves. I sent out a small list of things that I would want. I ended up getting a few video games, some giftcards for iTunes and VISA checkcards. My mum got me THE video game I wanted. My older sister got me THE Cow Parade Cow I wanted. My younger sister got me a video game I'd mentioned I wanted while we were shopping but had forgotten to put on the list (go her memory!). But my dad, the horrible gift giver extraordinaire, totally got me the best gift this year.
I have a new bedmate. The Tauntaun Sleeping Bag from thinkgeek. *spazzes*
That would be my shih tsu taking a nap with the tauntaun.
How did Christmas go for all of you?
Feliz Navidad, flist!
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Date: 2010-01-02 07:19 am (UTC)So just so that I understand you - you would ask about a kink and/or not write a kink that your recipient might not like including any kind of BDSM? You do realize what the "D" in BDSM means, correct? The "D" is D/s - the same kink that you did not ask about.
IMHO and YMMV, "kink" does not have to be graphic sex. A kink is getting off on something and there are plenty of people who get off on even thinking of someone living in a D/s relationship regardless of the physical relationships. Even if it isn't sexually explicit writing, it's still a kink to the recipient.
I don't know what there is to straighten out or talk out here. Shine on.