It really bothers me, too. We (meaning fandom) are more than happy to make this "thing" into a kink but when it comes to actual RL applications, it's like fandom is suddenly silent. There have been a few posts that I've seen on it now that others are finally posting about it but, dude, wtf. We only need to c/p a list of email addresses and a letter and send it off. How hard can that be?

I hate thinking this but if it was about them saying this about just gays, then it would be all over the flist. I can't help but wonder if it's because it's about trangendered people and that's why it's not showing up everywhere.