Oh man, dude, those experiences are le suck. You should be able to trust those sorts of places to understand what spoilers are about. You've summed up my point exactly, leaving LJ doesn't fix that.

See, I don't do that. I read a spoiler and, honestly, I forget about it until after the event happens and go "oh, so that troll was actually telling the truth, how amazing" and then move on. I don't really fixate on the spoiler because I really don't trust people, I assume they're all lying until it's proven otherwise.